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← Distress Tolerance

IMPROVE the moment

Replace the bad moment with a better one.

Imagery

A safe room inside you, a calm scene, yourself coping well.

Meaning

Find or create some purpose or value in the pain. Make lemonade out of lemons.

Prayer

Open your heart to a higher power or your own Wise Mind. Ask for strength to bear this moment. (If this fits you.)

Relaxation

Muscle relaxation, a hot bath, deep breathing, massage your neck or feet.

One thing in the moment

Put your whole attention on what you’re doing right now.

Vacation

A brief break: covers over your head for 20 minutes, a blanket in the park, phone off for an hour.

Encouragement

Cheerlead yourself: “I can stand it.” “It won’t last forever.” “I’m doing the best I can.”