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Half-smile and willing hands

Accept reality with your body. Your face and hands talk to your brain.

Practice now · 1 min

Half-smile

Relax your face from forehead to jaw, teeth slightly apart. Let the corners of your lips turn up just enough that you can feel it — no one else needs to see it. A serene face.

Willing hands

Unclench your hands and turn them palms up, fingers relaxed — arms at your sides if standing, on your lap if sitting, by your sides if lying down.

When to practice

  • First thing in the morning, for three breaths.
  • In free moments.
  • While listening to music.
  • The moment you notice “I’m irritated.”
  • While thinking of someone you’re angry with.